Not sure how to RSVP? Read this!

So you've received your invite and spotted this strange card headed RSVP? Even worse; it has a deadline! How should you proceed? Check out the options below...

Option 1: I am very familiar with this RSVP malarkey and am the sort of person who has stamps and envelopes on hand at all times

Brilliant! Please fill out the card for you (and your partner or '& guest', if applicable) and return to: 40 Dixie Court, Adenmore Road, Catford Green, London, SE6 4FA.

A couple of things to note: please specify which person has which dietary requirements and please include the full legal names of all attendees (including '& guest's - yes you need to confirm your date now, Ash!).

Option 2: Ugh, do I have to deal with this paper nonsense? Can I not do this online like we're in the 21st century?!

Why yes, fellow millenial, you may! On this very website in fact! Just click the RSVP button on the home page and fill in the survey. A couple of you have already done this but can I please request that all named guests (even if you are a couple) fill out a separate RSVP if responding online. I know it's a pain but the responses I see are much clearer if you do this. There is a +1 box if you really can't be bothered though (I'm nice like that!).

We have requested that you RSVP by the 31st January. We know this is a bit early but we are really busy with work (and other wedding bits) and would like to have everyone confirmed and on the list before we do the online seating plan (which has a very strict deadline, eek!).

If after reading this very rambling (and probably not at all helpful) post you still have some questions, please do drop us a line on mushettcole@gmail.com.